I've decided that my new idea of a dream vacation would be a giganitic bed with light tight blinds soothing music Eucalyptus aromatherapy candles burning and big fluffy robe to sleep in. This would be followed by a deep tissue massage and then a pedicure where I will sip blue cocktails with fun umbrellas and fruit in them.
Closer to my reality is the quick dry silver polish and my scented body wash.
But we are going to Disney World in May. And I finally convinced my husband that with our two kids we need to fly vs drive. So at least its a fun break from our lives although I'm not sure how relaxing it will be.
Disney is not a "vacation" in which people meander and rest. It is an all out 7 day marathon of fun. So how does someone like me 1)survive 2)keep up 3)enjoy doing steps 1 & 2.
I think the first thing that I do is PLAN. Lucky for me when we do Disney we go with my husband's family and they are not planners and take little issue with my NEED to plan. Of course I did get some resistence to an actual schedule and touring plan to ride teh attractions on vacation but when they realized that it was quicker and nearly ommitted waiting in line everyone got on board and let me lead.
I research the weather, the activities, the places to rest. We make time for breaks and do things that we really enjoy. When I need a break I say so. And if no one wants to go with me I'm happy to go it alone. Our last trip as a family everyone wanted to go shopping. I was beat. So I offered to stay back with the kids who want to swim and hung out near the pool. It was a win win. In Vegas my feet were so swollen I couldn't walk. I cabbed it back to the room and watched Law and Order until I fell asleep (Which for me was fun I LOVE Law and Order.)
I also make sure I carry certain medications with me at ALL times. For me this is my antianxiety medication, pepermint oil, eye drops, and tylenol. As well as foot care for blisters. One of the symptoms I have from my Sarcoid is panic attacks which tend to hit me in very crowded places or air planes (and I'm not afraid of flying and used to travel for work). Pepermint oil is great for headaches but also helps cool you down if you are overheated. We also make sure to drink enough water and snack throughout the day.
And with everything else I just push through. The last few trips I've gotten sick on the way there or on the way home with nasty colds. So I also bring cold medication with us and everyone gets an antibacterial gel for their pocket :)
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